One of the most important things I do on my trip is to go see my Dad. I never know if it will be my last time to see him. He'll be 92 in July. He wants to make it to 96.
But each time I see him I can tell that his health goes down a little bit each time. He has a brain tumor and I know the headaches have been getting worse.
My Dad lives in a nursing home. The second day that I visited him, he said, "Let's get out of here."
Well I wasn't sure, but I asked the nurse and she said it would be alright. So I loaded him into my car and we went for a drive. He told me he wanted to go to my nephew's. My nephew has a lake behind his house and my Dad wanted me to see it. His mind is still sharp. He told me exactly how to get there and which roads to turn on. I was amazed. Well I didn't know he wanted to get out of my car and walk around. Before I knew it, he had the car door open getting out of the car at my nephew's. Problem - my Dad can't walk anymore. So I was trying to help him get to a chair by the lake so he could sit down. A few times I wasn't for sure if we would make it.
But he was so happy. He sit there and watched the ducks and geese and just enjoyed being outside. I was so thankful when my nephew came home. He helped me get him back to the car.
Then he wanted to go by Hardee's and get a Diablo Sandwich with hot cheese and jalapenos on it. I said, "Are you sure? Your stomach will be a mess." But he was determined to try one. He almost ate the whole thing.
It was fun having an adventure with my Dad. I'm sure it wasn't the smartest thing to do, but he sure enjoyed it and I did too.
I'm thankful to still have my Dad and I'm glad I got to spend time with him on Fathers Day.




